Meet the Self-Help GPT by Talk2Tessa
A calm, psychologist-designed self-help companion offering gentle reflections, ACT-inspired guidance, and self-compassion practices for moments when your mind feels busy, tense, or overwhelmed.
What Is the Self-Help GPT?
Talk2Tessa brings together psychology and AI to offer soft, grounded self-help guidance. It gives you a warm space to slow down, explore what you feel, and reconnect with what matters to you.
The guidance is inspired by:
- Acceptance & Commitment principles (ACT)
- Self-compassion
- Small, doable grounding steps
- Gentle emotional exploration
- Warm, non-judgmental language
The GPT is available 24/7, at your own pace, wherever you are — in every language.
Who It’s For
People who want:
- A softer space to land during stress
- Warm psychological self-help
- Support without pressure
- Gentle guidance during overwhelm
- A calm AI companion for journaling
- Light ACT-inspired exercises
- To explore feelings in a safe, grounded way
How It Works
- Click “Start Using the GPT.”
- Begin with a gentle opener or ask anything that feels present for you.
- Talk2Tessa responds with calm reflections, grounding prompts, soft affirmation support, or spacious guidance.
- Move at your own pace — there’s no right or wrong way.
Tessa Geurts-Meulendijks, MSc | Psychologist | Founder of Talk2Tessa
About the Creator
With over 15 years of experience in psychological healthcare, Tessa specializes in blending evidence-based methods — specifically Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Self-Compassion — with modern AI technology. Her mission is to make professional mental wellness tools soft, accessible, and deeply personal. Every Talk2Tessa tool is designed to meet you with kindness, providing a safe space to grow at your own pace.
Let customers speak for us
from 21 reviewsRest Without Guilt felt like exactly the kind of support I’ve been needing. Lately I’ve been running on empty, constantly pushing myself and feeling guilty the moment I tried to slow down. This 1 day session gave me a calm space to breathe and listen to what was going on inside.
The tone throughout the flow is warm and reassuring, never rushed, never overwhelming. The ACT-based prompts helped me understand why rest feels so uncomfortable sometimes, and they guided me toward a more compassionate way of responding to my own exhaustion. It was comforting to feel so understood, even in an online format.
I also appreciated how simple the structure is. The program doesn’t pile on tasks or information: it creates clarity. The reflection page and affirmation added a grounding moment that stayed with me for the rest of the day.
By the end, I felt calmer and more at ease with taking breaks without needing to “earn” them first.
If you’re overwhelmed, tired, or caught in that cycle of feeling guilty for resting, this is a genuinely supportive and soothing reset. I’m really glad I gave myself this day.
This workbook was exactly what I needed. It helped me take a step back and finally give myself permission to rest without feeling like I was falling behind. The prompts were clear and eye opening.
A great, practical reset for anyone dealing with burnout or constant pressure.
I went through this program on my phone usually in the evenings. It felt simple and easy to use. The questions made me reflect without getting overwhelmed. After a few days I noticed my mind slowing down and I wasn’t stuck in endless overthinking as much.
What I really appreciate is the mix of psychology and AI. It feels innovative yet safe. The practices are simple, but they make a real difference in how I handle stress. It gives me both hope and direction.
I didn’t expect to enjoy a self-help book this much! What makes AI for Self-Help stand out is how down-to-earth and kind it feels. The exercises don’t pressure you, they invite you. The AI prompts are fun to use and gave me insights I honestly didn’t think a “chat with AI” could bring. It feels modern, creative, and at the same time very human. A beautiful mix of guidance and encouragement that left me hopeful and motivated.
The most important thing I’ve learned is that I can accept the restless feelings I have, instead of fighting them. And even with the tension, I now dare to speak up for myself. For me, it’s a very different new way to look at my emotions. I’d love to try the program for low mood as well, because my mood could also use a lift, even though life already feels a little bit lighter now that I speak my voice more.
I often feel down/depressed. but this program really helped me feel calmer and less stuck in those feelings. I even used it at night, and it made me feel more at ease. I’m excited to try the overthinking program next, and I really wish there was a program designed for sleep problems too. Tessa, will you design that?
As a mom of a little toddler it hasn’t always been easy to balance work and home. I used to get irritated quickly, then feel guilty about it, and end up stuck in the same cycle again and again. This program really helped me break out of that. Things feel lighter now. I’m less hard on myself, I carry less guilt, and that makes me more relaxed (and less snappy). Most of all, I can enjoy my little boy more 🩵
I wasn’t sure about using AI for something so personal, but this 6 day program really surprised me. It felt nice and clear, like someone guiding me step by step. I feel supported and I can see the progress I’ve made: i feel less anxious.
I’ve tried many selfhelp tools before, but Talk2Tessa is on another level. It feels like having a psychologist in your pocket, always clear and supportive. The flows give structure, so you actually move toward calm and self-compassion. It’s practical and so easy to use. Honestly, the best investment I’ve made for my mental well-being.
I’ve used ChatGPT before when I wasn’t feeling great, but the talks didn’t really have direction or an end point. Sometimes I just kept chatting endlessly. Now the conversations have a clear goal and structure. It feels supportive and really gives me something to hold on to.
I’ll be honest — I wasn’t sure if this ‘gentle AI flow’ thing was really my style. But wow, this program surprised me. It’s structured, no fluff, and it actually helped me step back from the endless worry loop I’d been stuck in. The daily prompts are simple but somehow hit straight to the point.
I liked that it didn’t feel overly ‘soft’ or preachy — it gave me practical steps I could actually use in real life. And yeah, I may or may not have copied some prompts into AI while pretending I was just ‘checking emails.’ Turns out that was the best 10 minutes of my day.
Bottom line: it works. And if a guy like me — who usually thinks he can just ‘tough it out’ — can say that, then it’s probably worth a shot for anyone.
Still & Clear really helped me quiet my mind. I tend to get stuck in overthinking, but the flows gave me simple steps to feel lighter and more present. I was worried (duh) this would feel overwhelming, but I was happily surprised by the practical setup and how easy it was to follow through during these 6 days.
This book is such a refreshing mix of psychology and practical tools. I think its great how it explains ACT and self-compassion in a down-to-earth way, and then immediately gives you copy-paste flows you can try with AI. It feels both professional and very approachable: like having a coach in your pocket. Definitely recommend for anyone interested in personal growth with a modern twist.
This book is such a refreshing mix of psychology and practical tools. I love how it explains ACT and self-compassion in a down-to-earth way, and then immediately gives you copy-paste flows you can try with AI. It feels both professional and very approachable like having a coach in your pocket. Definitely recommend for anyone interested in personal growth with a modern twist.
FAQ — Self-Help GPT by Talk2Tessa
Is this therapy or a replacement for therapy?
No. The Self-Help GPT offers gentle psychologist-designed self-help, not diagnosis or treatment.
If you’re in crisis or experiencing severe symptoms, please reach out to your local emergency services, your GP, or a mental health professional.
Is it safe to explore feelings with an AI?
Yes. The GPT responds with grounding, non-judgmental language and never pushes you into anything you don’t want.
You choose what you share and move at your own pace.
Do I need a paid ChatGPT subscription to use the Self-Help GPT?
No — you can use the Self-Help GPT with the free version of ChatGPT.
However, the free version sometimes has short daily limits (for example: only a few messages before a waiting period).
A paid subscription is not required, but it can offer:
- longer conversations
- fewer limits
- faster replies
Most people start with the free version and upgrade only if they want more space for deeper reflection.
In which languages does the GPT work?
All languages. The GPT gently adapts to whatever language you speak
What makes this different from ChatGPT itself?
This GPT is designed with psychologist-written guidance inspired by ACT and self-compassion.
It offers a calm, soft tone and helps you slow down, reflect, and reconnect with what matters — rather than giving general advice or information.
What is the difference between the Self-Help GPT and the Flow Programs?
The Self-Help GPT offers moment-to-moment emotional support — a gentle companion you can talk to anytime.
It provides soft reflections, grounding prompts, and calm space when your mind feels busy or overwhelmed.
Flow Programs are structured, psychologist-created workbooks that guide you step-by-step through a specific theme (burnout, overthinking, self-criticism, low mood, parenting, etc.) with daily practices, journaling pages, ACT-inspired exercises, and deeper self-help pathways.
In short:
- The GPT = flexible, immediate support for your moment.
- Flow Programs = structured guidance for steady, long-term growth.
Many people use both: they follow a Flow Program and use the GPT in between for extra clarity or emotional grounding.
Can I talk about anything?
Yes. Stress, overwhelm, self-criticism, low mood, parenting challenges, busy thoughts, anxiety, or simply wanting a softer place to land.
You’re always welcome as you are.
How private is my information?
Your messages stay within the AI tool you use and are not shared with Talk2Tessa — I don’t see or receive anything you write.
AI tools may use conversations to improve their systems unless you switch off data sharing in your account settings.
For your safety, only share what feels comfortable for you and avoid personal identifying details.
You are always in control of how much you share, and you can pause or stop anytime.
When should I not use the GPT?
If you're experiencing crisis, suicidal thoughts, or feel unsafe, please contact your local crisis services, a GP, or emergency number immediately.
The GPT is supportive but not a crisis tool.
Continue Your Journey
This GPT offers a gentle taste of how AI can support your self-growth with calm reflections and soft guidance.
All Talk2Tessa tools follow the same psychologist-inspired approach — helping you grow through ACT, mindfulness, and self-compassion, one small step at a time.
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A Gentle Note:
This GPT is a gentle self-help tool designed to support personal reflection, emotional clarity, and self-compassion.
It is not a substitute for therapy, diagnosis, or medical treatment.
If you ever feel unsafe, overwhelmed, or in crisis, please seek immediate help from a professional or contact your local emergency services.
This GPT is intended for adults (18+). If you are younger, please consult a parent, guardian, or professional before using it.
The guidance is inspired by principles from Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (Hayes, 1999) and Self-Compassion (Neff, 2003), translated into accessible, gentle self-help reflections.